We might as well have a revolution

Does gender matter?

Thoughts – normative versus positive statements: After years of looking at existing gender roles, it was interesting to move from theorizing about the nature of gender in society, and to have a frank discussion in class about the practical nuances of gender in the work place (and to see that some people in a business class setting don’t have the PC cudgel over their heads).

However, for theorizing on a power gradient that doesn’t find me at the bottom I often feel as if those who are at society’s bottom are over-stating their case. Of course when I theorize from a position of weakness I myself feel empowered. Basically I see class and not race.  But gender does matter, in many ways.

The problem is, we can’t just solve everything by women leaning in – though I am attracted to the idea. The important thing is that in spite of years of feminism (You can date it to about 1848 in Saratoga Falls) there is still this divide. So it is not just women needing to lean in, but important for those who control the structure to stop thinking power and opportunity are a zero-sum game and that we can grow as a country better when women’s roles in both the workplace and the home are given value on par with what men see their own value. This is true for gender and sex and race.

The discouraging thing is that some recent studies have shown that even in egalitarian settings like Sweden, there is limited income mobility. Those born poor are going to stay poor, and those born rich will stay rich. We can point to several counter examples that might disprove that narrative, but the broad sweep of the numbers say that you probably won’t be the president if you were born poor or female or trans or of a darker shade of skin. 

You have to look at the history and see that there are two strands for the out group to try to gain power. There are assimilationists who try to come into the existing power structure, and there are revolutionaries of many stripes that want to overthrow the existing patriarchy / class structure / gender norms / etc. I am not one for chaos and revolution. I’d rather sit on my couch and read a book. However, the revolutionaries have long been marginalized as too extreme and the people who just want a seat at the table have been fed, but then ignored. I don’t know what the answer is but I have the feeling that outside of a revolution, the power structure will remain in place and only slowly be chipped at by minority groups of all stripes. They will continue to have to both conform to and break away from stereotypes. They will have to be twice as good for less pay. 

We still remember Ginger Rodgers and Fred Astaire. The thing is Ginger did everything Fred did, only backwards and in heels. That sticks with me, and it remains true. I can see the inequity in the system, but I struggle because I feel weak and powerless to change such an entrenched edifice. 

Maybe I have to get off my couch.

Service workers of a Different Stripe: Reading Melissa Gira Grant's "Playing the Whore"

I read through the book in a weekend.  I dog-eared some pages, for reference.  I was done, and I found myself asking just what the argument was in the book. Maybe I have to ask because I don’t read a lot on the subject. Maybe since it was short I was just looking ahead for the end. Maybe, just maybe, the argument wasn’t focused enough.

I think it gives some context: Kristof isn’t superman. Sex workers are workers too.  I can stand up for that. Maybe we shouldn’t want to save them especially, as Grant quotes another writer in the book: “No one ever wanted to save me from the restaurant industry.”

Martin Stiff's Absence: It won’t change your life

I like graphic novels.  For me they’re light reading, since the genre is so visual that I can read a book in an evening even with all the other distractions of life. I also like the pictures, and I know that writing a graphic novel, drawing it and inking it are as much work as writing an equivalently lengthy prose novel. 

The problem here is that the one of the genre’s strengths is also a weakness. I can read a graphic novel, and it will have disappeared the next day amid the other dross my brain has to deal with.  I don’t necessarily like that, but I still get and read them, so I think when I read graphic novels I am more in the moment and less reflective and thoughtful of a reader, so my memories of the work don’t last.

That’s the case here. The title is a good reflection of the work’s effect on my mind. I read it, but for recall there is an absence of sorts. I enjoyed reading it and the setting of coastal England mostly during the war, and an eccentric rich guy building what he called a house in the countryside.

I had read nothing of the book before I picked it up.  I had just grabbed it off of the shelf of my library. And here’s the thing.  This is what I remember most.  The cover had a picture of a man’s jaw with no lips.  I tell you what I was expecting – zombies.  Were there zombies? Not that I recall.

Overall a quick entertaining read and a nice way to pass the evening. It won’t change your life or anything. There’s only one _Bone_, come on.